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I Thought I Was Finished With Databases, But My Company Says No

From: Patricia, Tempe, Arizona

Question: I am currently employed as a Credit Manager, and my company and I are working on defining what my Major Business Objectives (MBO) will be for the next year. Most of what happens in this phase is negotiating the contributions I can offer that fit the company's goals for the short-term as well as the long-term.

My MBO's should be related to my position as Credit Manager and should be within my skill level to perform. In the past they have included such things as becoming proficient in filing Bankruptcy Claim forms or creating Accounts Receivable reports to facilitate our collection efforts. This year, however, the 1st phase included only items that were related to Database programming.

Although, in a prior life, I was a database manager and created dbase solutions regularly, it is not (and never has been) considered part of my role as Credit Manager. In fact, I changed my career path to take me away from DBase management because I detested it.

I countered with some goals and objectives that I felt were more related to Credit Management. My firm’s response was that they wanted to use my dbase creation skills....going forward, even if it's only peripherally related to Credit issues. Since I made a conscious decision to move away from the IS/IT field due to my dislike for it, I am not anxious to be forced back into that mold. How do I say "no way" without alienating everyone from the CEO on down?

Response: When one party makes an offer or a proposal, unless they are dictating the circumstances rather than undertaking serious negotiations, their proposal should not be considered their final answer. You should compliment the MBO review person/people for remembering that, in a past professional life you used database skills. You should also remind them that the reason you took your current job was to get past database work because you had grown tired of it — even though database management remains one of your skills.

Negotiation is all about trading. One underlying exchange between parties says, “If you promise to do . . ., Then I promise to do . . .” You need to ask what incentives your company is offering to get you to do a job that you truly dislike. You also need to examine the choices available to you: if they’re insistent that you return to database management, can you move to another job? Would you be willing to do a temporary database management assignment if it had a specific ending date? And if they offer you a specific time limit in database management, are they willing to guarantee that time limit by agreeing in writing to pay you something as a penalty if they ask you to extend your database time?

You don’t want to say “no way” unless you have a credible alternative for your own career — or to offer the company. Perhaps you know a skilled database person who would just love to work for your current company. Maybe your company would pay a bonus for you to train a new database manager from within their current staff.

If you sold yourself to the company as a skilled database manager, to a certain extent you’re stuck with having made a successful sale of yourself with that skill set. But if your efforts to get hired as credit manager included a clear indication of your desire to put database management behind you, they should understand that your feelings haven’t changed.

In brief, you should examine your alternatives, you should familiarize yourself with why the company has turned to you (some sort of emergency, loss of a key database person, some other reason), and you should determine the most practical ways to bring creative thought to the situation so that no one loses face and you don’t get stuck with a job you hate. You can be open about your feelings without being obnoxious. You need to make it clear that your strong feelings must be taken into account for you to buy-in to the company’s proposal.

Good luck,
Steve

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