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My Pay As Manager Is Barely Above The Delivery Boy’s

From: Karen, Cookeville, Tennessee

Question: I am a store manager for a furniture company, I make $9.00 an hour, no commission, no health benefits, and no 401k retirement plan offered. My boss promised me a raise over a year ago. I have made improvements to the company since I've been there, and I have over 15 years experience.

My boss hired a 14 year old boy to work weekends just loading and assembling furniture, sweeping etc. He pays this boy in cash, he asked me to pay him the other day and the boy makes $8.00 an hour! I was shocked!

Needless to say I made an appointment to meet with my boss. I told him I wanted a raise. I also brought up the pay of the 14 year old boy, the boss got mad that I said that but then he gave me a dollar raise on the hour plus 5% commission on anything over $12,000.00 that I sell.

I feel bad for mentioning that about the boy but I really thought I was in the forefront of the boss’s mind. He would say stuff to make me think he was going to give me a raise just to pacify me. He was not thinking about my experience. What do you think about all this.

Response: It sounds as if your boss has a variety of peculiarities in the way he does business; I wonder how his tax advisor feels about cash payments to the boy.

Can you demonstrate how your efforts have increased the store’s profitability, reduced expenses, or yielded other tangible benefits that have flowed to your boss?

Before undertaking any further actions, you need to investigate your BATNA, the best alternative to the situation in which you find yourself.

  • Can you find a job with better pay and working conditions within a reasonable distance from your existing job — or home?
  • What state and federal laws apply to your situation? Since yours is a management position, you likely have less protection than an hourly worker.

    You should also have some clear goals in mind regarding what changes you would like in your work situation. You may have a long list of ‘wants’; these should be prioritized so you know in advance which are more important and which you can concede in your discussions with your boss.

    Once you have a clearer picture of your value to the business — as well as your alternatives if you leave your current job — then you should take a look at what interests your boss has in responding to your concerns. If he knows that you are stuck — that your alternatives are even worse than the current situation, he still has to understand that your effort and loyalty and respect for him will be impacted by how he responds to you. So think about his ego, his concerns about money, his reputation among customers and other local businesspeople, and his concern about the effective operation of the store might be driving his current and future decisions about your enthusiasm and job satisfaction.

    With these thoughts in mind, approach him with questions to find out whether your assumptions are accurate. Try to figure out what issues are hot buttons and which are really not important to him. Use the initial stages of negotiation as a process for gathering information rather than as a forum for presenting your own ideas. Then, take a time out to figure out what you have learned and what words and phrases you need to use to get your boss to ‘buy in’ to the changes you wish to propose.

    It is a tough process if you approach it as selling yourself — but if you are selling your boss things that will improve his life or respond to his interests, things should move more smoothly and favorably for you.

    Good luck,
    Steve

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