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The Volunteers Have Disappeared And Now They Expect Me To Do Everything

From: Donna, Beaumont, Texas

Question: I work in the non-profit sector wherein employees are often expected to love their job and work more for less. I originally contracted to lead my organization into the black (positive cash flow) via my sales and marketing abilities while accepting the title Executive Director.

Our committees , however, have slowly disappeared and left the day to day management in my hands. While my title would imply that I am responsible for all operations my contract states differently. How can I diplomatically re-negotiate my position without seeming like a complainer or highlighting too glaringly that they have not held up their end of our bargain?

Response: A contract is an agreement between two or more parties. If both or all of the parties want to change the contract, there is nothing to bar them from renegotiating.

If, as in your case, the contract was based on one set of circumstances and those circumstances have changed, for all practical purposes it means that the other party -- your organization, has made an arbitrary decision to change the contract without consulting you.

Rather than going forth as a complainer, a smart move should be to call a meeting to discuss long-term strategy and the short-term tactics for fulfilling that strategy. You should prepare a report with graphics and whatever other 'bells and whistles' are likely to make an impression. The report should say that, "To achieve objective #1, we need the following resources. (and so on for other objectives)" You should go on to say, "The most important resources we need are active volunteers (and whatever else may be needed)."

You need to make it clear in a public forum open to the organization's membership that unless circumstances change, the organization will not be able to achieve its goals. I do not think you should say, "When you hired me, we had X number of volunteers and committees. Now that they have disappeared, I'm left holding the bag and that's unfair."

Rather you should outline the program and progress and make it clear that what you are outlining are shared objectives. Make it clear that "we" need to undertake the following steps, using the following resources to achieve our shared objectives. If those resources are not forthcoming on a dependable basis, the program will not succeed and all of us will share the resulting disappointment.

In a sense this may appear to be going over the heads of the board of directors -- but frankly, it may well be you're more likely to find the help you need by reaching out to the organization's total membership. Thus your 'report' should be in a form that will work if it is mailed to folks who don't attend the meeting.

The critical negotiation lesson to remember is that you are not in the business of trading blame with your constituents. You and they share goals and unless you focus on achieving the goals, the failure will be that of the organization and not any specific human beings.

Good luck,
Steve

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